Daring to live and express and be free is courageous. Be it through art, music, writing, or even flags, your right to self-expression - your right to express your unique experience that you may not see reflected in the past - is something that cannot be taken away, and is something that will define our era. What you feel, what you experience - those are all valid and you have every right to express those feelings. Take pride in your identity and how it relates to our current day. We are living in a new era, our new present-day - we must define our new history, for we are a part of that history that defines our era. We must be open-minded, passionate, empathetic, and accepting towards our fellow MLM/NBLM.
We will not let those who are not a part of our community speak over us and dictate what is right and what is wrong for us. We must advocate for civil, healthy discussion and not hostility - validation and understanding rather than negativity. We will continue to fight against invisibility, misconceptions, and bigotry, and stand in solidarity with one another. Each and every one of us deserves to be represented and seen. We must stand together and become a better, stronger community - to work towards inclusivity and acceptance. It is wonderful that we, as a community, are making steps forwards for ourselves to express our unique experiences with attraction, gender, identity, solidarity, and the like. 2 October 2020 - added MLM/NBLM acespec flag 18 September 2020 - added MLM flag (Twitter,) MLM flag (Twitter,) non-binary gay flag (source unknown,) MLM flag (Twitter,) edited the blue/green gay flag description 11 September 2020 - added MLM flag (Twitter,) trans gay flag (Twitter,) and MLM flag (Twitter) added "neon/gray/accent gay" to the MLM terms section added a few site tweaks 5 September 2020 - added (Twitter) gay flag and blue mlm flag 2 August 2020 - added asterian, and cinnammoroll's (Twitter) gay flag added "mlm terms" section - added jensensbrina's (Twitter) MLM witchcraft flag, added quarentapes' (Twitter) achillean nb flag, updated cinthean flag section with a Twitter link alongside a Tumblr link - added o-hemprichii's (Tumblr)/monstericfag's (Twitter) cinthean flag, added "site updates" page, changed navigation buttons to include "site updates" and "a message from me," added hover color to navigation panel - added rainbow flag, blue/green flag, and achillean flag renamed "why these flags?" section to "questions " updated "questions" - site went live Official statement to the home page that the site manager is no longer actively managing the site. 11 June 2021 - site management transferred 2 June 2021 - site management being transferred, deleted some flags - minor edits. + accent gay: an in-between of neon and gray they usually reserve their affection to spaces they are comfortable 's an identity centered around the relaxed energy or reservation of their personality." + gray/grey gay: "gray/grey are mlm are more reserved in their public presentation. they prefer to not mute their presentation of themselves in 's an identity centered around the color of their personality." + neon gay: "neons are mlm who express themselves more through color and presentation. neon/gray/accent gay - neon and gray gays are terms invented to offer an alternative for mlm identity rather than "twink" and" bear" & "top" and "bottom." I am unsure if they are a labels in and of themselves, but can be used as a label if one wants to. This includes:Īmetrine regarding "blue rose" and "ametrine," the terms are used to describe the flag. due to discourse surrounding achillean, other terms and flags have arisen as synonymous alternatives that MLM/NBLM can use if they would like. "isn't achillean a problematic term?" No, read here for more.
(these can be used to refer to anyone who is a man and/or nonbinary, and has an attraction to men and/or nonbinary people or aligns themselves with that experience and community.) achillean - anyone who falls under the MLM/NBLM label NBLM - nonbinary loving men also written as NLM (alternatively MLNB - men-loving nonbinary) MGA - multiple gender attraction MLM - men loving men gay - used to describe men/nb who are exclusively attracted to men/nb can also be used as a general umbrella term for LGBT+Ĭinthean - a specific term for gay men/nb. UPDATE: Carrd has a new owner! If you want to suggest a flag or anything else you can dm me on Insta ( Original creator: are a list of MLM terms, particularly those that are lesser known. Here's a collection of MLM and gay flags made by the community.